Today Andrea took me to meet Margarita at the school where we would have our final visit. I was interested to see this school because up until now, all of our visits had been to private schools. This school, on the other hand, was a public school, and it was supposed to be one of the best in the city.
We arrived at the building, and I thought that it must have been a mistake, and that this could not possibly be a school...The building itself was enormous...It looked more like a museum or a train station, and it took up several city blocks!!!
We went inside to wait for Margarita, and at this point we didn't really notice the impressiveness of the building, but once she arrived and we moved out into the hall toward the elevator, it was becoming apparent to us that this school was a work of art in itself. We were told that the building was over 100 years old, and that a man who had sold shoes in Argentina many years ago had donated the money to build the school. He was Italian, and so he had imported Italian marble to build the school. We got in the elevator, and saw that the wooden floor and details on the green iron rod door were very impressive. The elevator definitely looked like it was 100 years old, and I held my breathe as it started to climb up to the second floor.
Exiting the elevator, I saw more columns, pillars and a floor made completely from Italian marble. The doors that lead into the different rooms and offices were very large and ornate. The "Director of Psychologists" greeted us and told us more about the school. She explained that this building actually housed four public schools and that even though these schools were separate , they functioned somewhat as one big institution.
We spent the morning touring the school. This visit really "blew me away"! We went up and down spiral staircases and passed by the doctor's office, the swimming pool area (complete with 2 swimming pools), the theater where students were actually performing a play. There were also two patios for PE and recess, a real working museum and a library filled with very old books which actually served as the setting for part of the movie "Evita" with Madonna (I will rent it as soon as I get back to see it)!!!
After touring the facility I had a chance to visit with the faculty and staff and to share information about teaching and working in public schools. It was a very insightful visit to say the least. Margarita took pictures because the battery to my camera had died, and I didn't have the charger with me. She assured me that she is going to send me the pictures from this visit when she can, and I will post them ASAP.
We finished our visit and then got on a bus and headed to the city center. We met up with Osvaldo, Margarita's husband, at Havanna, which is like an Argentine version of Starbucks with a lunch menu. I ordered a panini with meat and cheese and a pepsi light. We ate lunch and then spent the day touring the downtown area. It was really cold, and my hands were freezing...while walking down "Calle Florida", which is kind of like a pedestrian walking area with shops and restaurants, I spotted a McDonald's. What I wanted more than anything was a big-sized coffee "to go"...which is kind of considered "strange" here...I suggested we go in to use the bathroom and get coffee to take with us. Margarita and her husband looked at me with skepticism, but I told them that this is what I would do in the US if I was cold and wanted something to warm me up on my walk.
We went in, and I ordered three coffees to go. We stood at a table and prepared the coffees to take with us, and then we headed back out onto Calle Florida. To me, this was the perfect way to go...Osvaldo, who is somewhat more traditional, wasn't sure how to go at first, but then he took his coffee and started to drink it while he walked, and he actually seemed to like the new ritual. Maybe they will start doing this more often, now that they see how nice it can be to walk around with a warm drink.
This is actually just one of the little things I have found to be different about Americans and Argentinans...and I am pretty certain that this difference, along with others, mostly has to do with customs and traditions that have been practiced for years and years...Here in Argentina, getting coffee is an activity in itself...You take the time to savor your drink and to talk with friends at a table (much like it is in a lot of other places around the world). Taking coffee to go, and walking around with it seems "rushed" here and almost rude...I may be wrong, but this is my take on it, more or less. Margarita did explain to me that now, more and more, there are people who go into Starbucks (yes, they have them here too) and order coffee to go, but this is mostly the younger generation...so times are changing here too...but that is how life is in all of the world, I think. I am constantly fascinated by how people can be so different yet so much alike wherever I go!
The day ended with a trip to a famous cafe known as "Cafe Tortoni". It was over 150 years old!!! The building was in an older part of the city center, and when we arrived, we saw that a line had formed outside the door with people waiting to get a table and a glimpse of history and maybe lunch or coffee in this impressive place. We only waited about ten minutes, but because the line was outside, we had to stay bundled up. In line, it was apparent that most of the people waiting were tourists from other places, but the thing that struck me the most is that I didn't really hear any English being spoken. These visitors were mostly coming from Brazil, Europe and even Asia.
It was actually kind of refreshing to not have mobs and mobs of American tourists around, and it was something that I hadn't expected. The truth is, that up until this point I had only run into one American couple...it was on the 4th of July, which was kind of funny...Being almost the only American around was very different for me. In my past travels to Europe, there have always been so many American backpackers and tourists, that it seemed almost hard to focus on the place I was visiting. What I've decided about Argentina is that it is an excellent place for people to come who want to learn and practice Spanish and not be bombarded by other Americans.
The cafe itself was impressive...It had all of the original decor, and it looked like an old Italian trattoria, but with an Argentine flair. It reminded me a little bit of a restaurant we have in Frisco called "Buca di Beppo"...If you've ever eaten there, you know that the floral print wallpaper is kind of old and drab, and that there are framed pictures, statues and different "antique-looking" objects everywhere. Cafe Tortoni was kind of like that...only this place was the "real deal"...Buca di Beppo is made to look old and Italian, it is also severely "overdone" to get across the point to visitors and to be somewhat of a "joke" (I remember my family eating there and seeing a framed picture of a seriously fat old mad eating spaghetti with his shirt off hanging on the wall). Again, I didn't get to take pictures of this place, which is kind of a shame, but Margarita came to the rescue with her camera and will send me the pics soon.
At the end of the day Andrea picked us up near the Congress building in the downtown area on her way home from work. She works some days as a "medica laboral" in a company, which I think means more or less, that she takes care of patients who work in certain companies. The ideas surrounding the Argentine healthcare system such as doctors being available in a person's office, are kind of hard for me to understand, but with our recent changes with the Obama administration, this might be the type of healthcare we are headed toward in the US...This, along with so many other issues I've discussed here with the Argentine people, is complicated and I still am not sure how I feel about it all.
Speaking of this...which is totally off subject of my day, many Argentine people whom I've met have asked me my opinion on many topics such as the Obama Administration, Mexican immigration, our recent fincancial crisis and health care (like I mentioned above) along with other issues. People here are interested in the US and how we have evolved, and they are watching our country and are curious about how we feel concerning the changes going on. One other side note that I thought was also very interesting here, is that in the paper in Buenos Aires on the front page one day there was a story about the legislation trying to pass a new law to acknowledge gay marriage as legal. I would have never guessed that this sort of law was being proposed and that the subject was being discussed here...It just goes to show you that places around the world are more similar than we think. Of course I've been "all ears" here, instead of "mouth", because I wanted to hear opinions rather than give them...Mostly, I've just explained that it's very complicated, and I know what my heart "says" about issues, but that I can also listen to what others have to say and think about it.
We finished the night at Andrea's house with dinner and an English lesson with the whole family around the table. Andrea is so excited about how her youngest son Gonzalo has taken to me and how he seems really motivated to speak English when we're together. He started in an English bilingual school when he was very young like his older brothers, but he moved to another school, so he did not continue learning English until just recently. I think, about a month ago he started taking English lessons again, and so he is very motivated to practice. I love his excitement and his effort despite his lack of words at times. This, I think more than anything is what my "intercambio", or exchange trip has been about...meeting people, and having the opportunity for us to encourage each other to be the best that we can be, and to know that we are all important, no matter who we are, or what language we speak. I know that the people of Argentina have taught me this, along with so many other things, and I will take these lessons and experiences with me now, somewhat changed "para siempre"!